Let’s face it - privacy was at a premium during lockdown with the whole family squeezed into one space together.

But constantly being ‘on’ can be incredibly hard and, well...exhausting! We all need (and deserve) that time to be still and do the things that make us happy and feel ourselves again. 

In this guide we wanted to give you some tips to help you carve out a bit of space in your home to help you to disconnect, recharge and just breeeeeathe. 

Carve out some space

reading nook with pillows and plants

First things first - hunt down the ideal space for your little sanctuary. 

Consider what you plan to do in the space to relax. Are you looking for some floor space for yoga? If so then the nook under the stairs won’t be conducive for a tall, strong mountain pose but would be perfect for an armchair and a reading nook. 

Or perhaps it's painting or crafting that takes you to your happy place? Then you’ll need to find somewhere with plenty of natural light. 

It might be that you’re lucky enough to have a spare bedroom, or perhaps an old shed crying out for a she shed/man cave makeover. These are ideal spots for you to commandeer for your private retreat.

If not, then don’t fret! Trust me, when you start to think outside the box you could be surprised at the amount of  spaces in your home that can be transformed into a mini private retreat.

Here we've gathered plenty of inspiration for creative ways to clear out some space. But if you want to skip straight to tips on styling your space, click here.


Bookcase room divider


Another option that can be installed in a day! The other great thing about this is that you can create as much or as little privacy as you need, depending on what you display on the shelves.


Use a decorative room divider 

Bedroom with decor wooden divider

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A beautiful design feature and a great way to section off an unused corner of a room.


Set up camp in an alcove

living room alcove with chairs and pillows

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Make use of the quirky and seemingly awkward nooks in your home by transforming them into a comfy reading nook. 


Use a window ledge

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Deeply recessed windows are an ideal spot to use for a reading or meditation nook. You can even hang curtains above the frame so that it’s just you and the view when they’re drawn. 


Borrow space from your landing

orange chair in hallway

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Often an unused space but can be perfect for a little reading nook. A decorative room divider would work wonders here for a bit more privacy when needed. 


...Or under the stairs

Hallway with seating under stairs

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The space under the stairs is prime real estate that’s not to be wasted! Yes you could use it for storage, but why not add in built in seating instead which can transform a hallway into another usable space.


Dual purpose storage

hallway with dual purpose hangers and shelves

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A room divider and extra storage. It’s a win-win! In this example you can see a hallway with shelving and hangers. 


Clear out a cupboard

Organised utility area

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You might find that by channelling your inner Marie Kondo you can clear out a whole built in. 


How to turn your space into a calming private retreat

So you have your room or clearly defined nook - the fun can begin! Here are our top tips on how to create your very own private retreat within your home.

Clear the decks

utility room with high storage shelvesImage credit: My Bespoke Room

You need room to breathe - the last thing you want when you’re trying to relax to be surrounded in clutter. Nobody should be reminded of any unfinished housework!

Make sure your new retreat is fitted with storage solutions to make it quick and easy to gather everything up  and hide.

Rattan storage boxes are great for quickly tidying away bits and bobs and can also add natural texture to the space. 

For more storage tips check out our dedication post here


Choose calming colours

Pastel pink and blue bed

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Keep in mind when decorating your home retreat that certain colours conjure different emotions.

Surround yourself in colours that bring you joy but make sure you pick a soft tone to soothe rather than energise you. For example, did you know that depending on the hue you choose, yellow can be either bright and uplifting or conversely the colour of frustration and anxiety? 

Blue is often associated with feelings of tranquillity and green is a wonderful choice as it can stimulate feelings of growth and rebalance. 

When in doubt choose warm neutrals like beige or white walls and add textures for warmth.


Choose furniture that hugs you

blue and white living room with corner sofa

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Who says it can’t be stylish and comfortable? We’re loving the trend towards rounded soft furniture that envelops and hugs you! There are some great affordable options out there to, perfect for a little home retreat. 


Cater for all the senses

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It’s important to think about how you want to feel in the space and what mood you want to be in. Plonking a cushion on the floor unfortunately won’t quite cut it! 

To fully relax and switch off you need to consider all the senses. Think flickering candles for ambiance and the scent of fresh flowers. Particular scents can instantly calm us notably lavender, chamomile or jasmine. 


Hang a curtain

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A cheap but effective way to bring privacy to any corner or nook in your home. 


Introduce plenty of texture

sofa with fur and wool blankets

Speaking of the senses - this one deserved it's own section! Touch is crucial to creating a space that you gravitate towards. 

When choosing soft furnishings, pick deeply tactile materials like a faux fur blanket alongside a soft velvet cushion.


Surround yourself in nature

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Indoor plants are not just a design trend. They do so much more than just finish off a space.

Plants can truly improve our well being by detoxifying and cleansing the air we breathe.  

The link to nature and the outdoors also has wonderful soothing effects. 


Keep it fun and personal!

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Remember to keep it fun and unique to you. In our latest house tour, Jess from the My Bespoke Room family showed us round her stunning home and didn’t leave out her latest project - the home office/gin bar! 


We hope that this guide has inspired you to carve out a bit of space, however small, that’s just for you. Because we all know - there are times when alone is the best place to be.

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